I think that human beings are the strangest creatures on earth!
We have so many misguided concepts about our parents and even though everyone knows that ALL PARENTS LOVE THEIR CHILDREN UNCONDITIONALLY, everyone thinks that their parents do not really love them or do not love them enough for one reason or another!
As we complain about how bad our parents are, many times we forget that we are responsible for our relationship with our parents as well.
We could choose a better relationship and take a step forward and we could give them our gifts to help them out of whatever situation they are in right now.
Many a times, if we think that our parents do not love us, it is usually because:
- they are incapable of showing love because no one had taught them how to do it
- they are unhappy and need our gifts to get out of the situation
- they also felt that no one loved them, felt worthless and had no recognition from their parents or other halfs
It is one of the greatest misunderstandings that our parents do not love us.
At heartbreak stage, we always feel that, "If my parents love me, they will treat me the way I want them to treat me. If they do not treat me that way, it means that they do not love me."
But parents have their own plan to raise their children. Eg, we may want to eat Ice Cream before bedtime but our parents have plans for our good health and reject our request. We feel upset and think that they do not love us but they are doing it for the good of us.
Irregardless though whether our parents are thinking of us or not, we complain about our parents ANYWAY.
To many parents, eg the father, after they work hard, they usually go home and want to watch TV to relax after a long they work. We think they they do not love us but in working hard for a living to give us a good life, to them, that is their way of showing love.
If you think your parents do not love you, ask yourself why they behave in this way. What sort of gifts can you get them out of this situation.
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